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Materials

Materials

When two people share an apartment, things and surfaces wear out faster and in different ways. One comes home late and turns on the hallway light, the other works from home and walks the same route all day; one has a favorite armchair, the other a habit of leaving a mug on the windowsill. That is why materials for a shared home are worth choosing with both people's habits in mind. What matters is how a surface handles moisture and friction, whether it is easy to clean, and whether it will become a source of arguments a couple of seasons later.

A practical material is one you don't have to remind each other about every evening.

— Worth remembering

How this section works: we talk about surfaces, fabrics and storage items in general terms and do not name brands, models, sizes or prices. The care label, marking or the maker's instructions will tell you how and with what to clean a specific item.

What holds up to life together

Surfaces, fabrics and small items that two people deal with every day.

Wall paint

Washable paint in the hallway and kitchen forgives marks from hands, bags and splashes. A matte finish hides unevenness but needs gentler cleaning; what is allowed is printed on the can.

Care

Wallpaper

Check the marking before cleaning: some wallpaper tolerates a damp sponge, other kinds only a dry brush or a vacuum. If you disagree on color, start with samples right on the wall.

How-to

Floors

The flooring along the path between the bedroom, kitchen and bathroom wears the most. A mat at the entrance and soft pads under chair legs noticeably extend its life.

Care

Curtains and lighting

With different sleep schedules, blackout curtains in the bedroom and a separate lamp on each side of the bed spare you morning resentment and the overhead light flicking on at night.

Ideas

Textiles

Throws, cushions and bedspreads that the care label allows you to wash at home work better in a shared living room than items that need complicated cleaning after every spilled cup of tea.

Care

Boxes and labels

Matching boxes with clear labels help both of you find things without asking. Clear ones suit small items, sturdy opaque ones suit seasonal clothing.

Tools

Catalogue of articles in English

This is where standalone articles about sharing a home and setting it up will appear. Each one is written specifically for English-speaking readers and published when it is ready.

What we are working on now

  • Thermostat truce: agreeing on the bedroom temperature when one of you always runs cold
  • Sharing a single bathroom on busy weekday mornings
  • Moving in to a place one of you already lives in: making it feel like home for both
  • Splitting closet and garage storage without taking over each other's space
  • Hosting holiday guests in a small apartment: where everyone sleeps and stores their things

Editorial rules

  • Articles in this catalogue are written separately for each language version and are not translations.
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Surfaces and items in a shared home: what to agree on

What you chooseWhy it works for twoWhat to agree on in advance
Paint in the hallwayMarks wipe off easily, and the wall can be touched up without a big renovationWho keeps the leftover paint and where the shade name is written down
Wallpaper in the bedroomAdds coziness and softens echoWhether it can be washed: check the marking before reaching for a sponge
Rug in the living roomFootsteps sound quieter, and sitting on the floor is warmerWho cleans it and when
Blackout curtainsOne of you sleeps peacefully while the other is already upWhen to open the windows and air out the room
Shared throws and cushionsThey can be washed whenever neededThe wash setting follows the care label, not one person's habit
Tall shelving units and wardrobesPlenty of room for both people's thingsAnchoring to the wall is a must; heavy items go on the lower shelves
  • Care

    Seasonal care of the home and belongings: switching wardrobes, textiles, wallpaper, floors and shoes, and who is responsible for what.

  • Ideas

    Ideas by situation: different sleep schedules, two workspaces, a shared closet, a kitchen for two, the living room and the first move.

  • How-to

    How to split household chores without arguments, combine your belongings when moving in and pick a wall color together using samples.

What we rely on

  • Instructions and care labels from makers of clothing, furniture and appliances
  • Editorial materials of the Femina Maskulina guide

Femina Maskulina's advice is written in general terms and relies on the care labels and instructions from makers of clothing, furniture and appliances, as well as on widely accepted home safety rules. Check how to wash an item or clean a surface on its care label or marking, ask your building management about remodeling, leave electrical work to an electrician and anything involving gas to the gas service.